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To Relax And To Pamper

Massage - how to give one to relax and pamper her or him. I looked around and discovered 26 different types - Deep Tissue, Russian, Swedish, Chinese, Shiatsu, Watsu, Reflexology, Stone, Thai, etc, and there's probably a lot more. I admit, I have no clue what most of those are about but the sure do feel good to get and to give.

Romantic Massage

I enjoy a nice back rub from time to time and so does my wife. I'm not talking about therapy or for medical reasons, but just a nice relaxing moment of thoughtfulness.

Back rubs, foot rubs, and shoulder rubs are the some of the most common massage requests I hear, and they feel so good to get!

For Her Eyes Only!

Will You Rub My Back?!

Most of us have probably asked or been asked that some time or have even thought of giving/using back rubs as part of dating or being romantic.

In case you don't already know, touching is an important part of building and maintaining a strong connection to each other. Touching in a non-threatening way builds trust.

One common complaint from women is that their guys either don't know how to give a back rub or they just do it for a few minutes and then quit.

No more excuses! Learn how to give a good back rub! It's not hard and it doesn't take very long, 30 minutes or less. By the way, you're going to need one or more of these once you know how it's done...

Once you know how to give a good back rub there's no sense in keeping it a secret! You can use the free Romantic Back Rub Coupon shown above to make it easy to show off your new skills. Right click to view, print, or save to your computer

8 Back Rub romantic coupons on one (pdf) page

More Free Romantic Coupons here

Relax and Pamper...

I have a friend who is a massage therapist. She went to school to learn how to do this and she does it well. I never went to school for this so I am by no means an expert and I am also not giving out medical advice. I'm going to share with you how I learned to relax and pamper my sweetheart in a little as 15 to 30 minutes with a nice back, shoulder, or foot rub.

By the way, if you've never had this done professionally I highly recommend it for you and/or your special someone as a romantic gift idea. It can be very relaxing and rejuvenating at the same time. I also recommend getting a ride home afterward because you won't want to undo all that relaxing by getting all tense in traffic.

Bonus: A lot of people report that this helps release your own stress as you focus on giving. A gift that gives back. Nice.

Things you'll need...

Massage table, bed, or floor. If you use the bed make sure it is fairly firm and not super wiggly.
A clean sheet.
Massage oil - optional, but I recommend it. I like to warm the oil first by letting the container sit in a bowl of warm water. There are many good massage oils to choose from, and most offer the added benefit of pleasing scents so you get the aromatherapy going as well. Lavender seems to be a favorite scent, and it is said to have relaxing qualities as well. Find out what scents she/he likes and dislikes to be sure of your selection.
Music. There are many instrumental CDs (no words) that have relaxing sounds of rain, waves, birds, etc. Most places that sell CDs also sell relaxing instrumentals. If you use them, play them very low, almost so you can't hear them.
Clean hands
Candles (used carefully) or soft lights. They help create a relaxing atmosphere.

Now all you need is your sweetheart. Perhaps they need to relax after a rough day. You could give them a massage just because, or maybe they cash in a Back Rub Romantic Coupon you gave them and you'll be ready.

♥ Here Is How I Learned How To Give A Massage

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