How To FlirtThis Is a Game You Can WinHow to flirt - for fun, to attract a partner, or to attract a mate. Flirting is a big part of the dating and mating game. I'm 49 years old and I still like to flirt with my wife of seven years to let her know she still lights my fire. It's fun, it's playful, and I suspect it keeps your mind sharp and your heart young. Who hasn't at least once in their life felt the excitement and joy of a look or a smile or some playful words from a cute guy or a pretty girl?! I remember the dances at summer camp and flirting with girls from another camp.  It was the highlight of my summer to have a girl come up to me and ask me with a shy smile if I'd like to dance. I was all of 13 years old but already knew some of the basics of flirting. I think we are born with the basics.Smiling, laughing, looking, touching, and teasing, probably every kid does all of these from a very early age and as we get older they never lose their magic or their ability to tell someone we like them or we think they are special. You Can't Forget This Stuff Somewhere within growing up and becoming adults some of us forget the basics of how to flirt, but they haven't changed from when we were kids on the playground teasing the girl with curly hair or the boy with freckles. A smile, a laugh, a look, a touch, the words we speak and how we say them in a teasing way, all of it is flirting and even as adults it still carries the same meaning. You Have Lots of Good Choices There are lots of good books and websites devoted to the subject of flirting. You can spend a lot of time and tons of money learning an endless list of pickup lines and techniques all designed to attracted the opposite (or same) sex. Just don't forget, you already know the basics. As long as you aren't too shy or overcome with fear of rejection, the only thing you really need to know is how to walk up to someone, say hi, and don't forget to smile. Really. That's all you need. If you do want to get yourself an education on how to flirt I suggest you start small with a book or download an ebook designed to teach you some of the advanced techniques of attracting. If you start small you can see if it is right for you without committing a lot of time or money. Just be sure you learn from someone qualified to teach you, like a relationship expert or someone who comes highly recommended from someone you trust. There are many choices so take your time and find someone who speaks to your needs. My personal favorites: ♥ Kara Oh - From Flirting To Forever ♥ Mimi Tanner's Secrets of Flirting With Men
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